I’m with this guy for 4 months and everything went well.
Well I had a few reservations (before I always feel confident with the person).
It was not so engaged, .
So I’ve never really asked a question. Last month he moved to Israel three weeks since his return and I felt we we have more and more distant. Thinking that he was becoming distant because of me that was not very demonstrative and affectionate, I decided to talked to him. In saying that I wanted to go further with him, I needed time for the real me without barriers, come to the surface.
And then he told me that it moved him away too, but mostly he does not know but he thinks his religion is more important pr him than he thought. That he wants to have children, get married and it would be too complicated because I’m not Jewish.
There he tells me he feels he falls in love and he prefers to tell me there before we committed too.
And then I fell, I told him in tears that it was too late pr me, that I loved her …
All these things I could not say before. He cried a lot too. Said he is not on mm of this history of religion, but he needs to think, and he does not think and stay with me at the same time, I do not deserve this.
So after a night crying both as madeleines, I left.
And after I sent him a message saying he had to fight, think, take your time, BUT DO SOMETHING QQ. I did not want to lose qq thing he was not on.
And there he replied that I was right, he would ask and re thinking about all this. Too bad that he would risk losing me but he needed to do everything flat and he added”we will perhaps all is not finished. “what do you think?
What should I do my side?
I like it and it’s stupid, I realized all of that and I really talked to him the day we broke up.
But for once I was me.
And as we said, the worst is that it seems to not really know each other, by dint of not being really honest with each other with the pdt all these months to book. ..
And there he is wrong because as he said he had not been happy for years …
So why break up?
there really was broken?
do you think he will reconsider his decision?
What should I do to not lose it?
Thank you!
Vanisha
I am sorry to learn that religion has yet managed to break a couple in love. When will it stop all this!
All you have to do is keep your life and if you are strong, Love will conquer.
Are you just believing you (even another religion)?
Otherwise you’ll have a hard time accepting his side blessed ass. I think some people try to influence
In every marriage there are two issues: the spouse and the environment – with the spouse could have been – but against the middle you’ve lost – you are the weakest link …
it’s sad but for some religion comes first!
they say they are open, but actually when you think they are open when you go to their senses!
(Religion and ideas)advice flies have something else before I suffer more!
although it is too late obviously!
Jews prefer to marry them!
for various reasons!
Sabbaths and more!
more when we know it is the mother who transmits religion …..
A mother gives her husband a Jewish child!
if the mother is Jewish!
it spreads so!
as you’re not Jewish ……….
And many children will not either!
and must see that it bothers ………
Your friend ……. Or her parents go running before I suffer more!
Case coward!
sorry to tell you that!
but it crashes ahead
No, not at all, you describe exactly the couple of Rama Yade, bourgeois, Muslim, of Senegalese origin, culture Gaullist, married to a Jewish socialist, who was, until the appointment of ministerial posts Rama close to the PS. Since, to avoid misinterpretation and confusion of gender, the husband of Rama Yade has joined the firm of Jean-Marie Bockel, defector moderate socialist and discreet in the Fillon government. That said, some Jewish families are quite radical, because, they say, the Jewishness is passed on by women, they often call their son marrying a Jewish woman.
You can always convert you, that you are black is not an obstacle. Matter did so Nadine de Rothschild, a Catholic originally to marry her husband, she converted to Judaism and, more malignant, as it was still a little actress, very pretty but Original very popular, she played on the fact that, traditionally, a Jew can not divorce a woman who converted to him, finally, is what happens, they say!
That said, if your fiance who keeps his distance, following a stay-cramming in Israel, you can not do much, I know it’s easy to say, but tell you that if tacked as easily, is that not worth the trouble you’re interested!
is difficult but not impossible
we must always fight for that return it to its original position
when you love, anything is possible
How beautiful your story, but sad. I hope he knows that love is rare these days, and it would be a shame to spoil everything because of a history of religion …
Holds with your expertise and your tenderness
Answer my office colleague who is a practicing Jew:”’Forget this story
If he has more ties to Israel, is dead at death if you’re not Jewish, and Jewish parents.
You can convert you but it’s long and it is not the same thing to be born of parents juifs. Désolé to tell you but also your skin color is a problem in our community.
A Jew with a black is frowned upon. I can not imagine returning to Israel or make my aliya with a black woman. My family disinherit direct. J imagine my mother’s head and heart attack following .””Damn it shocked me by telling you this, good luck.